In the Darkest of Valleys
When a relatively new believer chose to follow Christ's command to forgive and ask for forgiveness from his family's enemy, his own brother attempted to kill him.
(This article was written by AGWM personnel in a sensitive region.)Recently we walked through a dark valley either Erdem* — a friend of ours who has been a follower of Jesus for over a year. From the beginning, he has been bold and vocal with his family about his new faith in Christ, despite being from an unreached people group (UPG) with very few other believers.
Last year, after his father died, Erdem became the elder of his extended family. This means the family honor and respect are in his hands. He can now even more strongly lead his family by example in addition to sharing his faith.
Erdem began to make decisions to correct wrongs that had weighed his family down for generation. For years there was enmity with another family that included revenge, betrayals, and feuds, and considering one another sworn enemies. Erdem decided to obey Christ’s command to forgive his enemies and to bring reconciliation.
Erdem went to his enemy’s home, knelt, and asked forgiveness for all the evil exchanges between the two families. Erdem’s brother was furious, believing this action brought shame upon their father and grandfather. He retaliated by shooting Erdem four times with a pistol, and then fleeing. The family that had once been his worst enemy drove Erdem to the hospital.
The next day, Erdem’s son told me his father was in a coma in the hospital’s intensive care unit. The doctor reported that the next 48 ours would determine whether Erdem would live or die.
I didn’t sleep much, staying in constant communication with Erdem’s son. He began to ask me detailed questions about his father’s faith, and how he could be so forgiving. I shared about the character of Jesus, and that Erdem had made his choices in order to obey the commands of Christ. Erdem’s son then explained that the police were waiting for a statement, and he wanted to honor his father by sharing about his faith.
But before Erdem’s son gave the statement, Jesus showed up and a miracle happened — Erdem awoke from his coma. Erdem informed the police that he would give the statement, telling them that he forgave his newly arrested brother.
The doctor interrupted, pleading with the police that Erdem was not psychologically stable and didn’t know what he was saying.
“Your brother tried to kill you, shooting you four times!” the doctor exclaimed. “Yet somehow you are alive!”
“I have been resurrected like my Savior,” Erdem responded. “My brother tried to kill me. I died, but now I am alive again. What else can my brother do to me? I forgive him.”
We are blessed to be part of Erdem’s life. He walks with new boldness. His family, his community, hospital personnel, police, and his former enemies are now very close to the kingdom of God.
*Name changed